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Let the Creative Juices Flow.

I have had my Girl squirt on occasion. I’ve found it curiously arousing yet didn’t think to pursue it as something that could be achieved through conscious effort and technique. One  Utah Domme had mentioned in a posted thread that it … Continue reading

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Your Jesus/God/Leather Doesn’t Look Like Mine So Fuck You

(Disclaimer: This is my personal opinion and is does not represent any friend, family or group I may or may not be affiliated with) Living in Utah, one cannot seem to escape the topic of religion.  Utah is predominately LDS … Continue reading

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Ode To Submission

I kneel before Him a supplicant My only purpose His will to serve A greedy slutty mendicant Waiting for whatever he feels I deserve. His desires, His wants are all that matter Losing myself within his control I am bound … Continue reading

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What Makes a Healthy Relationship?

Synergy, in general, may be defined as two or more things functioning together to produce a result not independently obtainable. Whether you are hard-core leather, occasional kinkster or straight vanilla, here are some simple rules of thumb to keep any … Continue reading

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Honor within our Service

I was recently reading on Submissive Guide about keeping an Honor notebook.  She suggests as submissives we keep a notebook on how we honor our service whether that is to our Dominant, our family or to ourselves.  Please read more … Continue reading

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Jesus Likes His Kung Poa Chicken Hot

Easter Sunday 4/24/2011 Last night Gamer was out of town for work and my dearest friend Darling Evil(DE) came by the house to kidnap me to go out to dinner with our friends.  I say kidnap because my initial response … Continue reading

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BDSM and Leather Cults by Lady Jodi

Lady Jodi is head mistress of the Wasatch Academy for Ladies and Gentlemen of Leather and a long-standing member of the Utah BDSM community. BDSM and Leather Cults by Jodi Vanilla: “BDSM? Isn’t that some kind of cult?” Me (with … Continue reading

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“Thoughts on Lifestyle and 24/7″

“I Yam what I Yam” ~ Popeye Gamer and I had an interesting discussion the other day about the several interpretations of a 24/7 BDSM relationship.  The discussion began as it often does from various posts on Fetlife. We had … Continue reading

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For Fun and For Free

Recently, a friend related how her father was meticulously polite.  Once when opening a door for a woman he was chastised for his courtesy and accused of chauvinism.  When confronted upon why he opened the door his reply was priceless: … Continue reading

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Hurting the Body for the Sake of the Soul

A couple of weeks ago a demon I thought I had laid to rest came back to rear its ugly head.  I thought I had buried it completely but unfortunately like a bad dream came back to haunt my life.  … Continue reading

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